Have you been following the news about the TikTok ban? I can’t stop thinking about how deeply it’s affecting people. For some, TikTok isn’t just an app; it’s their world. It’s where they found community, validation, and a place where being weird was not just okay—it was celebrated. Losing that connection feels like losing a part of themselves.

It reminds me of what happened with VIPKid. Do you remember? Stay-at-home moms were thriving, teaching English to kids in China from their homes. It was a lifeline for so many, offering flexibility and purpose. Then came the political crackdown. China decided Americans had to live in China to teach and banned any criticism of the CCP. Over time, it became clear that it wasn’t just about education but control. The door to a thriving opportunity was slammed shut.

Fast forward to 2020—COVID hit, and suddenly, TikTok became the bright spot in a dark time. People were isolated, scared, and struggling. TikTok offered hope. It gave them a platform to laugh, cry, learn, and just be when the world felt so heavy. And for small business owners and creators? It was a goldmine. They showcased their talents, connected with others, and built entire livelihoods around it.

Now, with the ban looming, people are understandably furious. But here’s the thing: much of the anger is aimed at the U.S. government, while ByteDance, TikTok’s parent company, skates by relatively unscathed. ByteDance had nine months to find a U.S. buyer but didn’t. Why? The CCP wasn’t going to let them. It’s not just about money; it’s about control. Think about it: they’ve found a way to turn Americans against their own government while holding onto their influence. It’s like watching a slow-motion strategy unfold.

What’s crazy, though, is how TikTok revealed the power of social media. It’s not just a place to dance or lip-sync; it’s a hub of collaboration and creativity. I’ve seen wedding favor makers teaming up with wedding illustrators who connect with wedding planners. A bride wants simple candle wedding favors but extravagant sculptural candles for the centerpieces. One candlemaker focuses on the bulk favors, while another brings the artistry. They’re not competitors—they’re collaborators. That’s the magic of it.

It makes me wonder: what if we all leaned into that spirit of collaboration? Instead of fighting over market share, we could play to our strengths and support each other. It’s better for our mental health and helps prevent burnout. Imagine knowing someone who loves the bulk orders you dread, while you thrive on the detailed artistic projects they’d rather avoid. Win-win.

So, yeah, TikTok’s potential loss is heartbreaking. But where others see competition, I see opportunity. Let’s keep that spirit alive. Let’s keep connecting, collaborating, and lifting each other up—no matter what happens next.

What do you think? Are you as torn about this as I am?

Talk soon, Heather